DISCLAIMER - If we seem familiar, please read this.

There's a reason that this blog & the associated twitter account are anonymous -- this is a space for us to speak honestly & freely about our lives.

Given the overlaps between our social and sexual lives, it's pretty much guaranteed that eventually some of our friends and lovers are going to stumble across us and quite possibly recognise themselves in these pages. Given that we've changed the names and obviously make every effort to protect the identity of the people we mention here, if you know us we'd hope that you would give us the same consideration and respect our anonymity.

More importantly, if you do know us, and have reason to believe that you will be mentioned here, please think twice (or three, or four) times before you read any further, and mutter something to yourself about curiosity and cats.