Saturday 10 September 2011

In Which Miss O Proves Herself to be a Filthy Little Slut [Omniher]

A few weeks ago, Mr O took me out to dinner.  Now this in and of itself is not unusual, however this time he requested that I wear something short and thigh highs.

Well as you all should know by now, I'm nothing if not obliging!  The outfit was completed with the removal of underwear and the addition of pink Luna beads (I don't trust myself with the blue ones without underwear on).  I tried desperately the whole ride to the restaurant to get a reaction out of the taxi driver by flashing him shamelessly, but nothing.  In a last ditch effort I practically hiked my dress up over my hips as I was getting out - he didn't even look!

Exhibitionist that I am, I was determined to have someone appreciate what I had on offer before the end of the evening.


Sunday 4 September 2011

The Birth, Life and Death of our First Poly Relationship [Omniher]

When I first began my foray into the world of non-monogamy I never thought that I would fall in love, so nobody was more surprised than me when it happened.  And fuck me sideways, it actually worked!  There's no point rehashing the hows, whys and wherefores of the whole business - I've talked enough about it elsewhere on the blog (here, here and here for starters).  So I fell in love.  As did Mr O.  Luckily with the same person! 

We hated the idea of this incredible person being in any way 'secondary' to our relationship.  The whole primary/secondary/tertiary poly thing may work for some people, but not for us.  If we were going to do this, we were going to do it as equals.  Equals.  What does that mean?  What did it mean in practice?



Saturday 3 September 2011

Hello World - We're Back! [Omniher]

We started this blog as a place to let everything out.  Combined with our Twitter, it was supposed to be a place where were could talk anonymously about anything and everything (hopefully more good than bad!); especially those things which we didn't necessarily feel comfortable discussing with our friends/family/coworkers etc. 

It worked fantastically to begin with!  We started conversing with awesome people.  We started meeting those awesome people.  And suddenly that's where it got hard.  We weren't anonymous anymore.  Our disclaimer didn't seem to be enough anymore.  What if we said something to upset our new-found friends?  How would they feel about having their sexual exploits discussed publicly?  How can we really, truly freely write about people that we talk to daily?  How can we be honest?

It was especially hard after things turned sour with someone who was very important to us and a huge part of our lives.  How could we maintain our former honesty in all things when we couldn't be honest about what had happened?  And how could we be honest about what happened without causing more hurt?  And so, this blog fell by the wayside.  In many respects we withdrew from Twitter.  It just wasn't the same.

Well, this is a post to let you all know that we intend to return to our former goals of honesty in all things.  Our goal of bringing out into the open issues that most people are too scared/ashamed to talk about.  To talk about our triumphs as well as our failures.  If you know us and don't want to read about yourself, refer to the disclaimer and don't read on.  We don't care, we don't do this for the hits.  We never reference anyone in such a way as could publicly identify them so you don't need to worry about us 'outing' you.  If you feel we've been unfair, tell us in the comments - we won't delete them unless they are abusive or they give personal information about us or anyone else.  If you think you could be identified by anything we say drop us a line and we'll remove it.  If I didn't mention enough times how much I loved your cock/cunt...  Stop being such a narcissist.

This is our place.  And we're back.

- Miss O xx